If you truly want happiness and success, then you are going to need to work for it. Making your dreams a reality is not just going to fall into your lap. It’s going to require self discipline and hard work.
When people ask me what does a life coach do, I make it clear that their job is to help guide you along this process of developing a better life for yourself. I recently had a client who was having some issues on this and they wrote me an interesting email about it and here is what they said:
This is great if you use it to develop yourself, but look around at the world and see the dark forces controlling the things around us, our leaders are destroying peace and harmony, I know they say to change yourself is the only way, but there is no way the globalists and powers that be are going to change. I will continue to try and develop myself but I worry for the children of this earths future as the world is controlled by greedy evil sick degenerates and to that I'm afraid there is no answer.
There's more to the equation in life than just simply wanting to do something or be good at something, you need to drop the notion of dreams, riches and power because that's just an age old scam of promising a better life and riches, all there is, is what we can do and what we are good at and we're all good at a few things but you also have to be realistic in our society because it's a far stretch for a lot of things to be an entrepreneur or famous or in a big top of the pyramid job and it also takes the right personality to be that, you need to be good at communication for a start but a lot of people aren't normally too good at that so not everyone is meant to be an entrepreneur or famous or some big boss at the top lol and that’s okay it's not just simply "self-discipline" and there are genetic factors too depending the way we're built that is another factor towards what we can and can’t do.
We can take our own learning into our own hands and honestly I recommend you do because of how broken our society is these days. How broken the education system is because of the pursuit of money and power and now everyone's realized how much we've been scammed out of our lives, our time, our energy, our education, our money they've wasted a lot of our time, employers no longer take seriously Degrees, College experience or what you did at school because the content and experience is unrealistic to a real life job in the real world we don't spend all day in a job just ticking off boxes on a worksheet or doing some exam lol, but what you can do takes time to practice and master and you must take that time do it never mind about restrictive time schedules that we've been subjected to through out school.
Yes, it does take a certain amount of self-discipline too but you don't need to go all crazy on it like this lecture is putting across. Our learning needs to be enjoyable and make you enthusiastic about it too and life is a journey of learning not a 1 - 5 year process and then it's over with. That's the system talking of having you just memorize things rather than giving us quality content to learn and a quality way of learning to make us enjoy learning and feel good about it, to help out Long-term memory remember it, forget all that and all the ideals you've had drummed down you because we all learn and understand things at a different pace and perceive things differently but one thing that's not different is that we learn from practice time and repetition but don't try to flood yourself with too many subjects or concepts just 1 bit at a time baby steps, 1 concept at a time so you can focus on what you're doing or you'll just end up frustrating yourself like you were in school doing several subjects and concepts in 1 day. But you just don't need to be an entrepreneur or famous or rich when it won't make you happy and secure within yourself when it's not something you can handle, it's all about being realistic about what we can do as individuals and be able to handle, forget about the ideal of "Dreams" and do something because you can do it and want to do it.
If we're to achieve anything though the world also needs to improve around us because it just puts us all into hard circumstances and makes learning anything harder for us society needs to also give us the tools we need to be able to Master the things we're good at we can't just simply do all of that ourselves when the tools aren't available, now in The Technology Age we’ve got all this information but things are still made difficult for us because of the corrupt society we live in there are societal factors that impact us in many ways so if we all hope to improve the quality of life for all then the world needs to change as a whole. If we're secure and happy then there wouldn't be any need for conflict in our world when we will also be happy for each other.
Self awareness is about knowing yourself. Not the ego, but the stillness. The quiet mind will center you and when you are connected to that, you connect to the whole. We are not separate. The have and have nots. It is a very old ancient lack mentality and victim consciousness that is waiting to be rewritten. And it is. Are there starving people in the world? Yes. Are we not supposed to feel it? No. We feel it. And we have compassion. This creates a cycle of change. Start with yourself and realize materialism and gain are not the cornerstones to life. Abundance is an inside job and everything else will follow. You’re the captains of your own ships so make sure you steer it the way you want and create the life you truly deserve.